Not that it'll do much to repair the damage already done...

[slycat]

...but in relation to this post, I specifically wrote the entry to go over the fun time I had at Thorpe Park, whilst at the same time, not reveal the identity of the person I went with.  It's now come to my attention that in doing so, I've upset the person in question, and in hindsight, I suppose it's obvious that they would be.  So to explain, the person I went to Thorpe Park with was clawz_skunk.  The reason why I didn't mention his name may be obvious to some but it was me taking the easy route.  I knew that if I mentioned that I went out with Clawz and had a fun time with him socially, the people I had come to know as friends who had prior encounters with Clawz may take a different opinion of me.  I don't like causing a fuss and so thought it would just be best to avoid any potential backlash and keep quiet.  The truth is, we did have a great time on Friday and it was like being friends again before the whole mess started...

All I can really say is that I'm sorry I did what I did as it was obviously the selfish thing to do, I guess I'm not the nice person I thought I was.

Comments

[bungle-bear.livejournal.com]

*snugglesya*

Hey don't feel bad, I don't think any less of you :) It ain't your fault he's a twat, afterall :-p

*ticklesya*

[slycat.livejournal.com]

Ah, that's a bit unfair to say that. Yes he was deserving of that name for what he did at the time but he's been through enough.

I had a fun time in his company at Thorpe Park and he's prooved to me at least that he's not going to be making any of the mistakes he's made before again... Of course I can understand why some people wouldnt want to give him a second chance but I'm glad I did as I had a great day.

[bungle-bear.livejournal.com]

Everyone has a different approach to handling everything life throws at you. I'd sound patronising if I suggested you to be taking the noble approach, youre just being yourself and nobody can fault your good intentions. I wish I could be more diplomatic about things, but Im kinda cursed with being a headstrong asshole that has a tendancy to hold grudges when needed. *shrugs*

Glad you had fun at Thorpe Park, anyways! :)

[clawz-skunk.livejournal.com]

I wasn't going to reply to this because I didn't want to muddy the water again, but it's good to see that the principles of easter hold true with at least some people Bungle.

Easter is about hope and new life (hence the idea of giving eggs), something religiously tragic (the burial of christ in the christian faith) bearing good (The resurection) in my oppinion and If not then I'm glad that I got a positive meaning from it.

I'm a little uncertain as to when grudges are ever "needed" though and I hope you never make a mistake for which other people "need" to hold a grudge.

[a-skunk.livejournal.com]

In general I rarely ever mention who I actually am writing about in my posts to avoid situations like this.

[a-skunk.livejournal.com]

Easter marks the ressurection of Christ. The Burial is on Good Friday 3 days prior. Easter is religiously supposed to be a joyous time, not tragic.