Times Change

[slycat]

Seems like a lot has changed over the 15 odd years I've considered myself part of the furry fandom. In the old days if the Londonfur meets, I used to know pretty much everyone who attended and likewise, most people knew who I was. These days, I don't know the majority of furs who attend the Londonfur meets and even if I put on a conbadge, the only people who know me at meets are those from times of old. I suppose what I have to realise is that I'm just not as popular as I used to be. That said, I don't know what I did to gain popularity back in the day but it did seem that even people I hadn't met before had heard of me. I should be content with how things are but I do miss the times when I had lots of people to talk to.

I suppose it's ironic that I know or have known so many people but I could only count a very small number of them to be actual friends who I can chat with freely. I'd really like to have better friendships with the people I know as I suppose it can feel rather lonely at times. I would initiate conversations with folk I used to know but I don't know what to say or why we stopped talking in the first place. Maybe it's something I've done or someone I've associated with that's changed people's opinions of me or maybe people have just moved on.

Anyway, I'm not really sure what the point of this post is, so I'll wrap it up now. But what would be nice would be for people to let me know that they'd still like to keep in contact with me, it'd be nice to get in touch with more people again :)

Comments

[slycat.livejournal.com]

It's great seeing you when I can but that seems to be somewhat restricted to conventions you attend as you're in Germany now. Are you planning to stay there or look for work back in England sometime in the future?

[krakendwaggin.livejournal.com]

Hopefully I want to move back to the UK at some point and look for work back there, it's just finding a place to live, if I had that I'd come back in a flash!

[slycat.livejournal.com]

I can imagine trying to get work in another country would be difficult as you can't exactly just go for an interview. Though I imagine some would do a telephone interview if your application got that far.

[krakendwaggin.livejournal.com]

That's my problem in a nutshell!